I want you to get out of Marriage Shutdown™.
I don’t want you lying in bed knowing you need to say something to your spouse about how lonely you have been feeling, how tired you are, and about how you want to be a team again, but you remember the last time you tried.
How it turned into a big fight that emotionally-gutted you and left you feeling like your spouse doesn’t care about you at all. So now you are worried that you will never be happy again…never smile or laugh or have lightness that allows you to want to do those things.
So you roll over and say goodnight. Meanwhile the resentment continues to build, and you are having a hard time remembering what made you marry this person in the first place.
Marriage Shutdown™ is what happens after you have kids because of the systemic stress that gets you stuck in a negative feedback loop of stress, disconnection, and conflict and you don’t have the tools to break out of it.
It becomes easier to just not bring things up because what is the point of fighting about it if it never ends up fixing anything anyway?!
This is the nature of Marriage Shutdown™. It keeps you stuck in a negative feedback loop. It keeps you focusing on the wrong problem, and it keeps miserable.
This call is all about getting you the tools to change the systemic stress that keeps you unhappy.
In this focused 60-minute call we will:
· Identify exactly where you are stuck in the Marriage Shutdown™ cycle
· Get clear on what’s actually driving the recurring conflict (it’s almost never what it looks like)
· Map the first concrete steps to start rebuilding connection now, even with resentment, low energy, and no time
I can't wait to do this with you!